If you are in the mood for a little one-on-one time with your spouse/partner, you may get aroused with a little foreplay. However, it’s not uncommon that, even though you are aroused, to be dry. You may be out of lube, but baby oil will do just fine right.
You should stop while you are ahead!
You should not be using any do-it-yourself methods to increase the wetness down there to have that mind-blowing sex you always wanted.
Why It’s Not Safe To Use Baby Oil?
What you need to understand about baby oil is that it’s petroleum-based mineral oil – a byproduct of refined crude oil. The product is refined more to be used in skincare products and is considered safe for skins. It’s also great for diaper rash protection.
Baby oil isn’t the best idea for either vaginal or anal sex for a multitude of reasons.
#1 Problematic To Wash Out
You may have heard that oil and water don’t mix. That’s because baby oil won’t dissolve in water. Instead, there’s a barrier effect, staying on the skin until it’s thoroughly cleaned off. You can’t just wash it with soap and water and think it’ll come off. You have to scrub it off, as it can irritate the skin.
#2 Increases Vaginal Infection Risks
Lubricants with petroleum in them can increase the chance of a vaginal infection. According to a study, women who used petroleum jelly for lube were two times more likely to be diagnosed with bacterial vaginosis than women who did not. It can also increase the chance for yeast infections, so if you are prone to them, it’s best not to use baby oil.
#3 Baby Oils Breaks Down Latex Products
Oil-based lubricants will break latex products down – be it condoms, cervical caps or diaphragms. This breakdown can happen within a minute of contact, which increases your chance of getting pregnant or a sexually transmitted disease.
Since baby oil is water-insoluble, it stays on the skin. If used for masturbation purposes and you have sex with a condom before showering, the latex still breaks down.
#4 Baby Oil Stains Clothing and Bedsheets
As with any oil-based product, baby oil can lead to stains on clothing and bedsheets; stains can be difficult to remove.
#5 Baby Oil Can Break Sex Toy Materials Down
Never use baby oil when using sex toys made of plastic, latex, silicone or rubber. The materials will break down and damage the sex toys.
What Lubricants Would Be Best For Use?
If baby oil isn’t any good to use, it’s best to find a cheap lube that can be used safely and will still bring you pleasure in bed. The best lubricants are the ones that are water or silicone-based and have no dyes, fragrances or other irritants.
These lubricants are ideal for masturbation and intercourse that don’t lead to the breakdown of latex – either in quality or strength. This means you don’t need to worry about the condom breaking or skin irritation while you have sex. You can also easily clean off water-based lubricants with just water. The same cannot be said for oil-based lubricants.
There are two variations of water-based lubricants:
- Glycerin water-based lubricants
- Non-glycerin water-based lubricants
Water-based lubricants with glycerin will taste sweet. Brands such as Astroglide, Aqualube, Sylk, Probe and KY Jelly are popular water-based lubricants that contain glycerin.
The only time it’s wise not to use glycerin water-based lubricant is when your partner has a yeast infection because the sugar in it can cause a proliferation. For cases such as these, you can need to consider Liquid Silk or Play for your water-based lubricants without glycerin.
Some brands offer ingredients that will cause warming or tingling sensations during intercourse, which can improve the lovemaking experience.
When baby oil isn’t an option, you can always use silicone-based lubricants to improve the lovemaking session. These lubricants will also last longer than water-based lubricants and can be used with latex products. It’s not uncommon for people to use these over water-based lubricants because of the texture.
Silicone-based lubricants do not taste good, and it can be a bit difficult to clean off. If it’s not cleaned off entirely, it can lead to a vaginal infection. You should also not use silicone-based lubricants with silicone sex toys, as they bind together and can become painful.
Some popular silicone-based products that you can use include ID Millennium, Wet Platinum and Eros.
When Is The Right Time To Use A Lubricant?
Some individuals like using a lubricant while other people do not, as some don’t see any real benefit. This all depends on personal preferences and tastes. The key benefit behind lubricants is the moisture it brings to vaginal and penile tissues and improves sexual fun. You want a lube that can ease the friction and increase the pleasure.
People may use it with condoms if irritation occurs or use it for masturbation purposes.
The best time to use the lube is before the sex act occurs; best if used during foreplay too. Consider applying it to the vulva and slide some into the vagina. You can also apply some to the penis for easier penetration.
Another great time to use lubricant is when a woman is going through or has gone through menopause, as the woman may not be as wet as she was previously. This happens due to the decrease in estrogen levels. With the right kind of lubricant (and not baby oil), you can improve your sexual experience and vaginal dryness.
8 Things You Need To Never Use As Lube
Butter – Butter contains casein (milk proteins) that can go rancid rapidly. While it may be fun to experiment in the bedroom, you don’t want to use animal proteins on your genitals.
Lotion – There have been many TV shows in which a young boy masturbates and uses lotion to help them. Due to its use of TV, many people think it’s a good idea to use for sexual activity. However, it’s not, and the reason is that the ingredients in them – perfumes, dyes and parabens – can disrupt the body’s hormones.
Mineral Oil – Most people may not consider using mineral oil as a lubricant, and that’s a good thing because the body may actually absorb them. This can lead to dry genital tissues (the opposite of what you’re trying to do), which can lead to tearing, bruising and other vaginal problems.
Olive Oil – While using olive oil is good for your heart and use it on your skin, it is not good to use for sexual penetration. Natural oils such as coconut oil can break the latex in condoms down and increase your chances of becoming pregnant and becoming infected with an STI.
Petroleum Jelly – While petroleum jelly can make it easy to “glide” into the vagina, it’s not easy to wash off and keep bacteria in the vagina. This results in infections or irritation. According to a study, women using petroleum jelly for lube were two times more likely to be diagnosed with bacterial vaginosis. On top of that, latex-based condoms increase one’s chance of STIs and pregnancy.
Shortening – Shortening was very popular within the gay community for several years due to its freezing and melting abilities. Since shortening is oil-based, it can break latex condoms down and irritate the vagina and other body parts.
Spit – It’s common for couples to use their spit for lube. However, it’s not a good thing for a multitude of reasons. First, it doesn’t create the slippery effect you’re looking for. Second, spit can increase the transmission of STDs. Third, it can increase the chances of vaginal infections. All of it similar to oral sex.
Whipped Cream – Have you ever watched the 1999 Varsity Blues movie? If so, then you know the bedroom scene in which whipped cream was used. And, while whipped cream may be delicious as a treat, it doesn’t make for great lubricant. In fact, it’s bad for the vagina due to the sugar within it. Sugar can throw the vagina’s pH balance off and lead to infections. Honey, chocolate syrup and other sugary foods are also bad ideas for lubricants.